1 | Practice Rigorous Authenticity
My mask is:
I avoid difficult conversations2 | Surrender The Outcome
I can’t control:
I can't control if my wife will admit that she needs to be in recovery.
I can control:
I can control if I take action and set a boundary that we have to do recovery together.
3 | Do Uncomfortable Work
My Daily Reflection:
Did I avoid a hard conversation.
My Mask-Free Action(s):
Big action: (By Jan 9th)
Tell her that we must do CoDA recovery together. If she is not willing then we must separate.
Repeated action:
I must take action on my tasks, do them imperfectly, focus on progress not perfection.
I will post 2 of these per week in the Circle 2 text group.
Why this matters to me:
(12/28/2020-1/24/2021) DID NOT DO THIS CARD. I want my kids to witness healthy authentic Loving relationships.